SELINA QIAN

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Our generation of Chinese women tends to prioritize self-awareness more than before. The awakening of women's consciousness in recent years also attests to this, but it cannot be denied that such phenomena still exist. For example, many rural families still believe that girls don't need to receive a good education; they can just get married in the future.



My current involvement in the finance industry is somewhat to fulfill my parents' expectations. Many people perceive finance as a respectable and well-paying job, but in reality, I don't have a particular interest in it.



People often have unrealistic assumptions and expectations about you. I have no obligation to do many things, but for the sake of my future, for the sake of my family, I must force myself to do so. 

I find myself pondering over the desire to become a confident individual. Perhaps my life motto would be: "You are the center of the world."  Sometimes, I dream of being a conductor, where I wouldn't easily be replaced and could lead with capability. It's funny that I keep mentioning freedom; it appears that I actually adore a life of liberty, possibly similar to that of a horse? 

If I could revisit childhood, I would strive to prioritize my happiness over seeking approval from family, and instead, I would focus on discovering activities I enjoy, reveling in the joys of childhood.