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People often find themselves molded into a likable image by societal expectations. The "expectations" and preconceptions placed on women can leave one feeling speechless and disgusted. As for whatever path to pursue, it's about individuals and what kind of life they want to lead.
Some women lack true self-awareness yet exude confidence based on this false perception. Others possess self-awareness but lack the confidence to express themselves.
Fewer women lack genuine self-awareness and consequently have even less confidence, while a tiny minority possess a clear self-awareness coupled with unwavering confidence.
Reflecting on my life experiences, I realize that societal expectations often hinder rather than propel me forward. I frequently imagine others scrutinizing my actions, yet I now understand that it's mostly a product of my imagination, and I strive to rectify this tendency. Although reluctant to admit it, I have a tendency to seek approval, but in situations where change is possible, I am committed to adjusting myself to the best of my ability.
My life feels like a romantic comedy, with moments of ups and downs but never too extreme, as after all, the essence of comedy lies in tragedy. "I'm indifferent" is my life motto. I'm a very laid-back person, but I aspire to do more things that are beneficial to myself.